Rugby and Life (The Exe Men)

Northcott Theatre, Exeter – Press Night

★★★★★

Reviewed by Marcus Bawdon

How does one transform a sport into compelling theatre? This was the question occupying my mind as I settled into my seat at the Northcott Theatre on opening night, accompanied by my 14-year-old daughter—a devotee of both stage and scrum alike.

The answer revealed itself swiftly. A deceptively simple stage design, enhanced by intelligent lighting, created an intimacy that drew the audience immediately into the remarkable journey of Exeter Chiefs: from lower division underdogs to Premiership and European Cup champions.

Yet this production offers far more than mere sporting triumph. Beneath the obvious narrative arc runs a deeper current—the ebb and flow of life itself, with all its joy and sorrow, elation and despair. The predominantly rugby-loving audience found themselves engaged not just by familiar victories, but by profoundly human stories.

At the heart of the piece are Rob Baxter and Tony Rowe, whose passion and vision drove the club’s ascent. Particularly moving is the portrayal of Baxter’s genius for redemption—his ability to unearth players dismissed by other clubs, overlooked by their country, or simply in need of guidance. The transformation of these perceived weaknesses into strengths forms the emotional core of the show, exemplified beautifully in the portrayal of Steeno.

The production’s central theme—triumph through adversity—resonates far beyond the rugby pitch. It speaks to a broader male experience: the struggle with inadequacy, the difficulty of rising after life’s inevitable knockbacks. This message crystallises in a powerful closing moment from Jo Baxter, Rob’s wife, which elevates the entire piece from sports documentary to genuine meditation on resilience.

Balance arrives through warmth and humour—tales of legendary coach journeys fuelled by alcohol provide levity without diminishing the weightier themes. The smiles come frequently and honestly.

This is theatre that transcends its sporting subject matter. Whether you know your rucks from your mauls or couldn’t care less about rugby, The Exe Men offers a compelling examination of perseverance, community, and the quiet heroism of getting back up when life knocks you down.

Highly recommended for theatregoers of all stripes—rugby knowledge optional.

The show is running until Saturday 18th October, get your tickets here.

Marcus is a BBQ teacher, award-winning author, creator of the Countrywoodsmoke outdoor cooking community, BBQ magazine consultant and ex-amateur rugby player.